Gay Dating Sites

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GayBearDating.com ★★★★★ I love big rugged, hairy guys.  The men here were real and they were nice.  Once I got going, everything was fine.  There are lots of people and variety here.  Lots.  Even fetish variety.  All ages, sexes, lifestyles, slow-moving men, fast-moving, and bois on this adult dating site.  I am having loads of fun here, you can’t go wrong. FREE TO TRY
GayDating.com ★★★★★ The site is in English, but if you are Spanish-speaking this dating site has a seamless language change-over to Spanish (and Portuguese). In one month’s time, I received 26 unsolicited mails, not bad, and I sent out 159, getting about a 75% response. I think this is absolutely one of the best gay dating sites around. FREE TO TRY
GayCupid.com ★★★★ There are tons of men on GayCupid and I found many near me, including one interesting jock who was into drag.  You can hook up in this gay dating site in a casual way, so there is that, but serious looking-for relationship guys not interested in gay hookup sites will do well here as well. FREE TO TRY
GayMen.com ★★★★ Here I found guys into toys, all kinds of bedroom activities and off limit choices, plus more. There were a few guys mentioning their penis size; some may find that offensive, but like many gay dating sites, this is a sex site too.  Hook ups you know, and it’s OK that there is that. FREE TO TRY
InterracialGayDating.com ★★★ You can check here for taste and personality but other sites have more search options, especially more identity or sexuality related. The profile/search options were limited.  If you put in the work this will be OK, but bottom line, there are better gay dating sites and gay hookup sites on the internet. FREE TO TRY

Gay Dating Sites Reviews

gay-bear-datingGayBearDating.com 5 Stars (5 / 5)

When I was asked to review this adult personals gay dating site, I jumped at the chance.  I love big rugged, hairy guys.  Well, this young cub loves all men, but bears are my gay hook up thing.  What I find important in any free adult personals site are 4 main things: 1) is it easy to navigate and does the manhunt dating site work well (you would be surprised at the number of confusing and slow, or even down gay dating sites), 2) are the people real (and nice), 3) are there enough people, and all types and races, and 4) is customer service adequate (not that it’s always necessary).

No problem with the site.  Unlike other gay dating sites, GayBearDating.com was quick, the layout was simple and esthetically fine.  Making and completing a profile was easy.  2) The men were real and they were nice.  I wasn’t sure at first because the first 3 guys I wrote didn’t get back to me and I thought I would hear something right away on this gay personals site.  Hey, I’m adorable.  :)  Once I got going, everything was fine.  3) lots of people and variety here.  Lots.  Even fetish variety.  All ages, sexes, lifestyles, slow-moving men, fast-moving, and bois on this adult dating site.  All here.  4) great customer service, no more be said about it.  I am having loads of fun here, you can’t go wrong.  One of the best free adult dating sites.  5 out of 5 stars.

 

 

gay-datingGayDating.com 5 Stars (5 / 5)

As gay dating sites go, GayDating.com is that good.  It has a clean white-background layout, and get this, this free adult dating site has a seamless language change-over to Spanish or Portuguese.  Click either flag at the top, and boom, same page, but headers plus in the other language (the ‘In My Own Words’ part stays in English, but still this is rare on free adult dating platforms).  So if you are Spanish-speaking (like me, my parents Mexican) this is also great.  There are many men to choose from, all races, types, and they are kind and decent, understanding and accepting of your gender sexuality/identity.  Like any site, not all people on gay gay hookup sites can be patient and accepting.  Here, where I am comfortable being queer, all is perfect.  By the way, unlike some other adult dating sites, you don’t need to write lots on your profile, but at least complete the ‘About Me’ and the ‘What I’m Looking For’ sections.

OK, with this representative of gay sites: In one month’s time, I received 26 unsolicited mails, not bad, and I sent out 159, getting about a 75% response.  I spoke with 54 men, and hooked up with 9.  Could have been more, but I was satisfied.  I think this is absolutely one of the best gay dating sites around, maybe even one of the best adult dating sites, and I highly recommend it.  A very strong 5 out of 5 stars.

 

 

gaycupidGayCupid.com 4 Stars (4 / 5)

I was told that a lot of people consider GayCupid.com the gold standard of gay dating sites and other free adult personals sites.  Is it?  It is a clean, fast free adult dating site.  The advanced search option does give many choices, but could have more gay-specific ones.  I don’t think it’s because this adult dating site is trying to be non-sexual because there is a sexual role option which includes ‘top’ and ‘bottom.’  And ‘versatile,’ lol.  It could be a bit behind the times.  I knew I would have to ask for a bear or whoever here.  There are tons of men and I found many near me, including one interesting jock who was into drag.  You can hook up in this gay dating site in a casual way, so there is that, but serious looking-for-relationship guys not interested in gay hookup sites will do well here as well.  The profiles were set up in fine fashion, really nice.  And everyone I encountered either online or after in person was great.

To this point, I have sent mail to 84 men, including 14 who contacted me.  I pursued more with 10, although if I ever go to Manilla there is someone waiting.  I love adult dating sites.  :)  I am having a casual thing with 2 guys.  I may have more.  No real drawbacks but I would have wanted a chat function.  The company probably has chat for straights, why not chat gay? 4 out of 5 stars.

 

 

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GayMen.com 4 Stars (4 / 5)

Gaymen.com’s join page looks great, but inside this adult personals place??  The site is classy and has many functions under its expansive utilities, for profile making and searching.  I found guys into toys, all kinds of bedroom activities and off limit choices, plus more.  There were a few guys mentioning their penis size; some may find that offensive, but like many gay dating sites, this is a sex site too.  Hook ups you know.  You don’t have to use this free adult personals community for that, and many don’t, but it is.  There is a universal video chat, chat straight and chat gay tied in.  I also really liked the Mobile version.

Here is how I approached my review as I do with all gay dating sites.  After making a fairly normal gay personals profile, I waited 5 days before sending mails.  9 men contacted me, of all stripes, and even different gender identities.  I contacted 2 near me, and met 1 and had a blast.  I am partial to creative types, so when I made contact, I looked for men with body art, and personality traits and activities that matched mine.  I sent out 47 mails, got back 29, met 6, all fun.  Not bad for free adult dating.  One major drawback.  This adult dating site may be fairly new.  Even in my big, populated state there were not thousands and thousands of men.  Maybe a few thousand.  So, no perfect score, there are a few better free gay dating sites.  4 out of 5 stars.

 

interracialgaydatingInterracialGayDating.com 3.5 Stars (3.5 / 5)

I just came out so joining gay dating sites was a gift to myself, I took this review seriously because I was also learning.  InterracialGayDating.com says it’s the # 1 interracial gay community on the net.  So is it among the best adult dating sites?  Not.  It’s ok, but there are better, and a very good adult personals gay site has many of all races and ethnicities so it doesn’t need to say interracial.  The free adult dating site has ads on each page, and it was hard at first logging in.  It does have chat so you don’t need to go to gay chat sites.  I shared this free adult dating sites membership with a guy I know (just friends) and he was glad to help.

You can check for taste and personality but other sites have more search options, especially more identity or sexuality related.  Bears?  Bois?  For a moment, I thought it was gay free, lol I could go on.  This is a 3 week analysis.  My friend messaged 31, and only found he could meet 6.  He liked 3, is still seeing 2.  I messaged 47, found 22 who were on the same wavelength (but because the profile/search options were limited there was a lot of asking), and had fun with 5.  I didn’t want to continue with anyone.  If you put in the work this will be OK, but bottom line, there are better gay dating sites and gay hookup sites on the internet.  3.5 out of 5 stars.